A call to Trust

A dwarf galaxy by NASA via Hubblesite

http://www.bt-images.net/incredible-universe/ 

This Small Magellic Cloud is considered as a dwarf irregular galaxy. It has a diameter of about 7,000 light-years and contains several hundred million stars. This cloud is very small compared to the Milky Way, our 100,000 light years galaxy.

Many believe that if you wake in the middle of the night, it is the time to converse with the Divine.  Lately, I wake-up a lot.  This is mostly due to hot flashes and night sweats, but every now and then, I do have what I would consider Divine conversation.  I don’t know if it is really “The Divine” or perhaps guides and angels coming though, but it as though they tell me to shut up and listen.  So, I do.  

Oftentimes, when I wake, I can’t remember what I was told, but last night was different.  Last night, I had the overwhelming urge to get up and type out everything, but I was assured that I would remember in the morning.  

As I sit with my coffee (yes, I’m drinking coffee again), everything is coming back to me in a flood of words. 

The first thing I heard was the word, trust.  Actually, I think it began more like a question. 

Do you trust? 

Immediately, I found myself answering.  I think most of us try to trust, but when life seems to be an uphill battle, it is hard to muster the courage of trust.  We want to feel like we have control.  After all, how can things change or get resolved if we are not controlling the outcome.  

Stop trying to control what cannot be controlled and trust that all is evolving and happening for your highest good, for everyone’s highest and best good.

What about those who are sick, suffering or experiencing a loss of some kind, be it a loved one or financial? 

All happens for your highest and best good.

Elaborate please…

Everything happens for a reason.  You believe this?

Yes.  I answered.  I’ve said this many times.  I’ve written those words in my blog.  I do believe that is true.

And, it is true.  You are learning lessons from everything that occurs.  Some of these lessons are difficult and challenging, but they are meant to grow and expand you.  Breakdowns usher breakthroughs.  Sometimes, a loss is meant to push you forward into something new.  Sometimes, your world needs to shake up and break apart, so that you make decisions and get out of situations that are no longer beneficial or have become stagnant.  Situations where you have taken something for granted, where you are no longer learning, or where it is time to move on to the next teacher and lesson.  Even when it seems negative, but not all is negative.  There are lessons in everything.   The most important relationship you have is with self.  You are learning about yourself in all that you do.

But, some people feel they have nowhere to turn, no way out of a situation.

It is because they do not trust.  They do not believe that all will be taken care of in perfection for what is needed.  They lack the faith that in surrendering to trust, there is power.  Letting go of control allows the flow of energy to move and therefore, you become receptive to what is of the best and highest good.  Sometimes, these things require action on our part.  You cannot expect things to change if you remain in the same situation, with the same people; with the same energies,…you allow these circumstances to be your security, because you believe that it is too late to start anew.  You do not trust.  You trust in fear, but there is no fear.  Fear is an illusion. Then, something difficult occurs to get your attention and you must make a decision.   You must surrender to the possibilities of trust and move forward, or you will continue in the same patterns repeatedly until you die a little more each day.  You cannot possibly grow if you remain stuck. 

But, what about those who feel they are too old to change?

There is no such thing as age.  Age is an illusion that you have put upon yourself.  Trust that others will not see this in you and all will be well.

But, what about those who are sick and dying?

Everything is meant to expand you.  You are not this body.  You are not this illness.  You are not this disease.  You are a part of me.  You are more than what you see. 

Everything went silent in that moment and I found myself drifting back to sleep.  However, before I did, I heard these words once more…

Be In Trust.

Now, some may say this is just my mind, perhaps self-talk, or that I was dreaming.  I can assure you that I was very much awake.  I’ve learned the sound of the voice in my head and this was not it.  So, whether you believe this or not, I find that what was heard was very wise.  I hope you find wisdom in it as well.  I only wish I had asked more questions.

Love and light!

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Goblin Market and New Jewelry

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Wooden Medallion

And now for something new and different.  Here is a hand painted ammonite on a wooden medallion. It is accented with an amethyst crystal, a bead and colorful hemp rope.  The word believe is written on the back and it is initialed by me.  A small work of art for your neck.  https://www.etsy.com/listing/212840667/hand-painted-ammonite-wooden-medallion?ref=shop_home_active_5

The New Normal

Before I began this journey, I posted a blog back in October that 

featured a bridge over water and light at the end.  I had a prolific dream 

and was not yet aware how profound that dream would turn out to be.

Please bear with me, this will be a long post.  I've been meaning to sit down for a while now and bring many thoughts and emotions into words, but each time I try, I either walk away too overwhelmed or simply cannot find the words.  On May 18th, I had my surgery.  It was a difficult day, filled with emotion and excitement.  My chemo ended on 4/28 and was a surprise, as I was set to receive 12 weeks of  Taxotere treatment, but only received four.  My ultrasound a week prior to chemo ending was clean, with no signs of cancer, but it was the severe side effects from treatment that prompted my Oncologist to end treatment.  I was filled with joy and fear at the same time. Happy to be done, but fearful that it wasn't enough. Then, surgery came.  As I said, it was a day filled with mixed emotions.  We knew going in that the cancer was not visible on the Mammogram or Ultrasound. Therefore, the course of action was to remove a tiny titanium clip where the lump was, some surrounding tissue, and a couple of sentinel lymph nodes.  For those who have not followed my journey, I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer in January 2015.  We chose an aggressive course of chemotherapy prior to surgery, with the hope that the tumor would shrink.  The thought process was to conserve the breast, but also be certain that the chemo was doing it's job.  Triple negative BC is rare.  Only 10 to 15% of the case of diagnosed BC turn out to be triple negative.  It is aggressive and often quick spreading.   Treatment options are not as widely available as those that are hormone receptive.  I was fearful of the cancer spreading, but I was more fearful of removing the tumor and breasts, and then beginning chemo.  For me, I would never know if the chemo was actually working, and I needed that validation.  I knew that if I started chemo first and could see that it was actually doing what it was designed to do, that I was healing.  Needless to say, we made the right choice; the tumor disappeared and surgery was successful.  We were told we would receive results within a week.  The next day, May 19th, I took to healing and resting.  My doctor called me on the phone and asked me how I was doing?   Sore, but happy, I replied.  "Well, I have some good news for you, Trisha," she said.  "Your tests came back and you are clean and clear of cancer."  Silence. I had to ask her to repeat what she said.  It had only been a day.  I thought I had to wait a week. She repeated and I began to cry.  I thanked her and told her I loved her.  She laughed, and told me to go rest.  I hung up the phone and went into the kitchen where my husband was cleaning up some dishes. I could barely get the words out through the tears.  "Honey, I'm cancer free!"  We hugged and cried. I then ran upstairs to tell my son.  Yes, I ran.  It is amazing the kind of energy one receives from this kind of news.  I felt I could go into the ring with Mike Tyson.  I told my son and we cried.  I then called my parents and we cried.  I cried a lot that day.  My new birthday.

It is now June 7th and beginning next week, I will start radiation treatment for the next 6 weeks. After that, it is follow-up visits with my doctors for the next five years to make sure the cancer does not return.  Five years is the benchmark for cancer patients.  Many see returns of the cancer and many do not.  If the cancer returns, it often does so in other parts of the body.  Obviously, this is a frightening concept for me.  I never expected cancer in the first place.  BC does not run in my family and it hit me out of the blue.  I have other health issues, which I feel may have brought about the cancer, but I've had doctor's poo poo my theories.  I still believe the connection regardless of what they say.  I'm doing my best to remain positive, eat healthy and exercise.  I know this is no guarantee. While I have a wonderful support system, I have found that having had cancer has changed the way I look at cancer in general.  I take cancer very personally now.  Yes, it has changed my life, and in many ways for the good.  I am a much more positive and centered person.  I do not take life for granted.  I appreciate all life and the beauty of each day.  I don't sweat the small stuff.  I have a much deeper connection to the Divine and my Soul purpose on this planet.  However, I do take cancer personally and I shall explain.  It seems that I'm surrounded by cancer everyday.  I have friends who are going through treatment, those who are recently diagnosed, those who are cured and those who who lost the battle.  I have found that I despise the terms fighting and loosing.  It seems to denote weakness on the part of someone who does not beat cancer, as if they gave up somehow.  To me, I never approached the cancer as a fighting situation.  I had many people say, I kicked cancer's ass, or I fought like a warrior.  I even have a shirt that says, fight like a girl, win like a warrior.  But, from day one, I looked at this invader in my body as a teacher.  It was there to teach me something.  I never hated it and I never looked at it with anger.  I did not see myself going to battle.  This may sound odd, but I remember laying in bed last January, with my fingers over the lump in my breast, and having a conversation with the cancer.  It went something like this....

You and I are going to be with each other for awhile.  I don't know you.  You are a stranger to me. I'm not angry that you are here, but I am confused.  I wasn't expecting you.  I know you have something to teach me, so I am hoping that we can get along.  Just understand, that you are not allowed to stay and that after I learn what I need to learn, I want you to go and never come back. While you are here, I will surround you with love, light and healing energy.  I will think of you with this light around you so that you will not go visit any other places in my body.  Are we clear?  

And, this is what I did each night for 5 months.  I also told myself each day that I was strong, in perfect health and cancer free. I asked for help from the Divine and angels. I knew I could not do it alone.  I had two things occur during this time that were very odd.  One evening, early into treatment, I opened my eyes to see a dark object hovering  a few inches to the left of me.  It had spiky arms that extended all around it.  At first, I thought it was a giant spider.  I reached up, moved my hand through it and watched it disappear.  A few weeks later, it happened again, but this time the spiky, black object was all the way on the other side of the room.  It was small and hovered in the corner.  I brushed my hand back and forth and it disappeared once again.  I have never seen it again.  I believe this was the cancer.  This is how I saw it and I was watching it drift away from me.

Recurrence is a very real concern.  Every ache and pain gives me a twinge of nervousness.  It can't be helped.  I'm living with the new normal, as a friend of mine told me.  I just discovered an online friend is now facing cancer for the third time.  I discovered her early into my treatment after she had been a year cancer free from the second go around.  Her strength gave me strength and hope.  She still gives me strength and hope.  If anyone can get through this, she can.  She has my heart.

People say that time heals all wounds.  I don't believe it ever makes anything go away, it just changes our perspective over time.  To me, cancer will always be a part of me.  It's like an addiction that you overcome, but is still with you.  I don't know if that makes sense, but I've learned to live life one day at a time.  I've learned to place my feet on the floor each morning and say, thank you.  I am grateful for this life.  I am grateful for the blessings of each day. What matters is what we hold close to our hearts, everything else is just illusion.    Be well, my dear friends.  Be good to each other.  Life is very short.  Don't fill it up with illusions of what you should be, what has to get done,  or what you have no control over.  Just be present, breathe and love yourself and those around you.

The light at the end is our creation. 

SALE REMINDER

Don't forget that I am running a coupon in my etsy store for an additional 20% off anything in my store by using code CANCERFREE.  Offer is good until June 8th only!  I've added a lot of new items including wands and original art.  https://www.etsy.com/shop/ArtInSoulorg?ref=listing-shop-header-item-count. Below is a new wand just added.

The Key

I just finished up a new painting called, The Key.  Not the first person to paint a raven with a key and I won't be the last, I'm certain.  This one photographed so cool.  I did not use a flash and yet, something unusual occurred over his eye.  I decided to keep it.

He's available in my etsy store as an open edition print.